The Feng Shui Secret to Becoming You
There’s a specific sector in your home, known in Feng Shui as your Identity Palace (Fu Wei), that can influence how you see yourself, your confidence, and who you are becoming. It is a powerful space that is linked to your Life Gua, unique to you based on your year of birth.
You will need to calculate your Life Gua number and match that number with the corresponding compass direction, read on to find out how to do this and how to activate you this sector in your home.
How to Calculate Your Life Gua Number
Add the last 2 digits of your birth year. Reduce to a single digit.
For females: Add 5 (or 6 if born in 2000 or later).
For males: Subtract from 10 (or 9 if born in 2000 or later).Reduce to a single digit.
Exceptions:
Born Jan 1 – Feb 3? Use the previous year.
If your result is 5, use 8 (female) or 2 (male).
Identity Directions based on your Life Gua
1 = North | 2 = Southwest | 3 = East | 4 = Southeast | 6 = Northwest | 7 = West | 8 = Northeast | 9 = South
How to locate the identity sector in your home
Calculate your Life Gua number and match with the corresponding compass direction
Stand approximately in the centre of your home with your compass (a phone compass is acceptable) and identify the area in your home located in your direction, it may cover more than one room or even be a storeroom. The idea is to find a space that you can activate and make personal to you.
Read here if you want to know how to accurately demarcate sectors in your home.
How to Activate Your Identity Palace
It’s not about “perfect Feng Shui” rather it’s about creating a personal space that reflects who you are becoming.
Keep it clean, tidy, and well-lit – clutter clouds self-perception.
Ventilate well – fresh air invites fresh energy.
Remove outdated reminders of the past that no longer serve you.
Add meaningful objects/symbols/pictures that embody your vision of who you are becoming.
What if your Fu Wei is:
In a bathroom: Keep it very clean, well-lit, tidy and uplifting.
Missing: Hang 9 lead crystal spheres along the wall bordering the missing section.
In a shared house communal area: Use your personal direction within your bedroom.
In a storeroom: Keep the room well organised and tidy, even behind closed doors. Open the storeroom regularly to let fresh air in.
When to Activate Your Identity Palace
The short answer: Always!
It is important to always keep tidy and clean even if you don’t add any symbols here. A disorganised Fu Wei negatively impacts how you feel about yourself.
Here are some particularly impactful times to activate:
When you have made a significant change or wanting to make a change in your life, you can use this space to support your new expanded image.
If you find yourself letting others define your value, you can use this space to recognise your self-worth and realise your value. It can help you feel good about yourself.
If you feel stuck, demotivated or are unclear of the steps to get to where you want to be. It can give you clarity of conviction.
Focus on adding items / symbols of the qualities you aspire to have, you can even write out beliefs that support who you aspire to be and keep in this area.
In summary:
Your Fu Wei is personal. Keep it clean, organised and infused with symbols or items that resonate with who you are and who you are becoming.
When your home reflects who you are becoming, transformation can flow elegantly.